Success is
more than economic gains, titles, and degrees. Planning for success is about
mapping out all the aspects of your life. Similar to a map, you need to define
the following details: origin, destination, vehicle, backpack, landmarks, and
route.
Origin: A
map has a starting point. Your origin is who you are right now. Most people
when asked to introduce themselves would say, “Hi, I’m Jean and I am a 17-year
old, senior high school student.” It does not tell you about who Jean is; it
only tells you her present preoccupation. To gain insights about yourself, you
need to look closely at your beliefs, values, and principles aside from your
economic, professional, cultural, and civil status. You can also reflect on your experiences to
give you insights on your good and not-so-good traits, skills, knowledge,
strengths, and weaknesses. Upon introspection, Jean realized that she was
highly motivated, generous, service-oriented, but impatient. Her inclination
was in the biological-medical field. She believed that life must serve a
purpose, and that wars were destructive to human dignity.
Destination:
It is important that you know yourself so that you would have a clearer idea of
who you want to be; and the things you want to change whether they are
attitudes, habits, or points of view. If you hardly know yourself, then your
vision and targets for the future would also be unclear. Your destination
should cover all the aspects of your being: the physical, emotional,
intellectual, and spiritual. Continuing Jean’s story, after she defined her
beliefs, values, and principles in life, she decided that she wanted to have a
life dedicated in serving her fellowmen.
Vehicle: A
vehicle is the means by which you can reach your destination. It can be
analogized to your mission or vocation in life. To a great extent, your mission
would depend on what you know about yourself. Bases on Jean’s self-assessment,
she decided that she was suited to become a doctor, and that she wanted to
become one. Her chosen vocation was a medical doctor. It was then her
vision-mission to live a life dedicated to serving her fellowmen as a doctor in
conflict-areas.
Travel Bag:
Food, drinks, medicines, and other travelling necessities are contained in a
bag. Applying this concept to your life map, you also bring with you certain
knowledge, skills, and attitudes. These determine your competence and help you
in attaining your vision. There is a need for you to assess what knowledge,
skills, and attitudes you have at present and what you need to gain along the
way. This two-fold assessment will give you insights on your landmarks or
measures of success. Jean realized that she needed to gain professional
knowledge and skills on medicine so that she could become a doctor. She knew that
she was a bit impatient with people so she realized that this was something she
wanted to change.
Landmarks
and Route: Landmarks confirm if you are on the right track while the route
determines the travel time. Thus, in planning out your life, you also need to
have landmarks and a route. These landmarks are your measures of success. These
measures must be specific, measurable, attainable, realistic, and time
bound. You cannot set two major
landmarks such as earning a master’s degree and a doctorate degree within a
period of three years, since the minimum number of years to complete a master’s
degree is two years. Going back to Jean as an example, she identified the
following landmarks in her life map: completing a bachelor’s degree in biology
by the age of 21; completing medicine by the age of 27; earning her
specialization in infectious diseases by the age of 30; getting deployed in
local public hospitals of their town by the age of 32; and serving as doctor in
war-torn areas by the age of 35.
Anticipate
Turns, Detours, and Potholes: The purpose of your life map is to minimize hasty
and spur-of-the-moment decisions that can make you lose your way. But
oftentimes our plans are modified along the way due to some inconveniences,
delays, and other situations beyond our control. Like in any path, there are
turns, detours, and potholes thus; we must anticipate them and adjust
accordingly. This may seem never ending but with perseverance you will succeed.
Thank you
for taking the time to review our blog. We hope you find this series of
articles related to self-improvement and development of benefit.
Keep Dancin’
LB
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