Friday, January 31, 2014

Valentine's Day 2014

Wishing all of you an early great Valentine's Day, may you find or renew the love in your life. The roots of Valentine's Day goes back to ancient times, when people paid honor to the Roman God of Fertility. This was known as the Feast of Lupercalia, and was celebrated even then on February 14th.

The rise of Christianity in Europe saw many pagan holidays renamed for and dedicated to the early Christian martyrs. In 496 AD, Pope Gelasius turned Lupercalia into a Christian feast day. He proclaimed February 14 to be the feast day in honor of Saint Valentine, a Roman martyr who lived in the 3rd century. It is this St. Valentine whom the modern Valentine's Day honors.

It was during the 14th century that St. Valentine's Day became definitively associated with love. By the 18th century, gift-giving and exchanging hand-made cards on Valentine's Day had become common in England. Hand-made valentine cards made of lace, ribbons, and featuring cupids and hearts began to be created on this day and handed over to the man or woman one loved. This tradition eventually spread to the American colonies.

The traditions of Valentine's Day are broad and many. It is a time to exchange cards or small gifts. Chocolates and jewelry are the big hits of this holiday as is romantic dinners. It is a romantic event for lovers and a fun event for kids and family. Many a couple become engaged or wed on this day. For others it is a day to fall in love.

Make this Valentine's Day a special day for the loved ones in your life. So surprise the kids with a special gift. Plan a special dinner or even a cruise to the Bahamas fot that significant other in your life. The possibilities should be endless when it comes to showing those in your life the love you have in your heart for them.

Keep Dancin’ Larry B

Sunday, January 26, 2014

Weekend in Southeast Missouri

We just returned from spending the weekend with my Dad. As always, it was a great visit with a Dad, and as many other family members we can see in a 24 hour period. It seems that now when I visit something always triggers a memory from my youth. This time was no different; the trigger was a beautiful clear crispy January morning.

As we were cruising the back roads between Benton, MO and Charleston, MO on our way back home, the only thing in the blue sky were jet vapor trails. I instantly recalled sitting in the back of my Dad's pickup after tossing bales of hay to the cattle on another clear crisp January looking at vapor trails and wondering what wonderful places all those people were going and I wanted to be one of them. Of course, at the time all I saw in my immediate future was another school year interrupted by a summer of working on the farm.

As I grew older I knew I wanted more than what I thought the rural area could offer me. I jumped on every opportunity to get away from SE Missouri. After college, I started heading east till I got to Lexington, KY then spent over 20 years in Tamarac, FL before returning to the Midwest. I have been in 14 countries to date. I have been one of those people in the jets leaving vapor trails over other rural areas.

Yet it was not till we moved back did I fully realize that the area I felt could not offer a young Missouri farm boy anything was exactly what I was missing. It is true you can never return home, but you can go back for those special memories. To reflect on your life and the choices you made to get to where you are in your life.

I would not change much in my choices over the years; it was those choices that have placed me where I am today. It all started in a pickup in a field on a cold winter day in Southeast Missouri.

 

Keep dancin' Larry B.

 

Friday, January 17, 2014

Headaches and Your Diet


Is Your Diet Causing Your Headaches? Many of us do not realize exactly how tied in our diet is to the way that we feel overall.  We may only consider the diet that we eat to be something that keeps us nourished and either helps us to gain weight or lose weight depending on the type of foods that we eat.  The reality of it is many of the things that we eat can trigger headaches.  Along with that eating to excess can also lead to problems with headaches as well.  Let's take a look at our diet and see if there is anything that can be done to avoid this problem.                                             

One of the most important things for you to realize is the fact that your diet is going to define who you are as an individual in many ways.  If you're constantly eating sugary items, processed foods and eating on the run you can expect to have a lot of different problems with your health overall.  It is also possible that some of these items that you are eating are triggering headaches as this is a common thing that happens with the preservatives that are in processed foods along with sugar for many of us.                          

You also really need to be concerned about food allergies that you may be dealing with.  Many of us have these allergies and don't even realize that we have a problem.  The fact of the matter is there are many different things that we could eat which could trigger allergies and cause headaches.  For example, we may have a slight allergy to nuts, dairy, chocolate, or almost any other food item that we put into our mouth.  If it doesn't cause severe problems that are typically tied to allergies the corresponding headache may be pushed off as being from something else.         
                                                       
The easiest way for you to tell if you are having a difficulty with the food that you are eating is to keep a food diary.  Not only should you write down absolutely everything that you eat and drink during the days time you should also write down how you feel as well.  This can be a rather eye-opening experience after just a few days of doing so you should be able to tell which foods are triggering the headaches that you are experiencing.  From that point you can begin weeding them out of your diet and enjoy some days without headaches.                

Keep Dancin’ Larry B

Thursday, January 9, 2014

Life Changing 208 days


It seems like it was longer than 208 days but that is the number I come up with this morning as I think back on 2013. That is the number of days that I was on a mission to if not save a friend to ensure he received the best care and assist in ensuring his last days were filled with love, companionship, family and friends.
Yes, I am talking about my friend Luke Henry, it was this time last year that we learned that Luke was stage 4 Gastric/Liver Cancer.  Thus beginning a mission to be the best damn friend a person could have, to be the loudest and most persistent Patient Advocate possible and to be the supportive counsel to family. I did not realize at the time what this journey would do to my own life, my psychological being and my faith. I just knew that I had a friend in desperate need of support and I had to do what I could.
At first, Luke’s health was stable so we focused on his bucket list, which mostly consisted of things he wanted to do with the kids, Michael and Katelyn.  So I pulled together his friends and we were able to provide him the opportunities to provide those important events on that list for Luke and his kids. To see the joy in Luke’s face as he was able to do things special for each child was overwhelming to say the least.
I recently came across a folder in my computer that was named “LL”. It was filled with emails and copies of text messages that Luke and I had exchanged over those 208 days.  I became lost again in reading these and how our relationship developed and expanded.   It was interesting to see how our conversations went on certain topics such as plans for kids, health issues, philosophy, religion, life events and his wishes for after his death.  
208 days does not sound like a very long time but I can tell you it was one of the most rewarding 208 days I have ever experienced.  I gained so much, a Best Friend, a better understanding of human nature and strength, a deeper appreciation of my relationship with Paul, increased knowledge of Cancer and its treatment.  One of the greatest things gained in 2013 is a wonderful extended family that has become to mean so very much to Paul and I.
So as I thought back on my year, I know that I have experienced a life changing event. I could never look at life as I had prior to January 2013. I have to ensure I live my life to the very fullest, to step out of my comfort zone as often as possible. To show those in my life how important they are to me for we are never guaranteed tomorrow. To always offer support in any way possible to those in need around me.

Most of all Enjoy life and not let the everyday stresses rule…

Keep Dancin’ Larry B

Friday, January 3, 2014

Reflexology


Reflexology is another form of massage therapy. Similar to shiatsu, it is a physical act of applying pressure to the feet and hands using specific thumb, finger and hand techniques without the use of lotion. It is based on a system of zones and reflex areas that reflect the human anatomy on both the feet and hands which in theory have significant effects on the entire body. This form of massage therapy has been around for thousands of years. There is archaeological evidence that suggests this was used by the Egyptians in 2330 BC, China in 2704 BC and Japan in 690 BC.  The West only knew about reflexology in the 19th century.

Although reflexology is usually applied to the feet and hands, there are those who also apply the same thing to the ear. This technique is considered to be a modified from auricular therapy which is an acupuncture technique. In general, reflexology is used to reduce stress because both the feet and hands help set the tension level for the rest of the body. If you are able to fix that, then there is balance in the body. It can also help those who are suffering from arthritis, back pain, digestive disorders or problems, hormonal imbalance, insomnia, menstrual disorders, sports injuries and tension headaches.

You must never go for reflexology if you are pregnant, have foot ulcers or blood clots. If you are doing this for the first time, you better tell the professional your medical history.  Whether reflexology can help certain conditions and diseases is still being determined. But even if other tests need to be made, many experts agree that it is complement to standard medical care. With that said, patients should never use it as a replacement to medical help.

The best part about reflexology is that it is not painful. If this happens, you should tell the reflexologist to go down one notch. If there are certain areas in the body that are sore, tell them to focus on it as this will decrease with pressure.  Reflexology can be done at anytime and anywhere. If you have the time, you can even do this once a day. In fact, given its popularity most hospitals and HMO’s now consider this for insurance reimbursement as it is often used for post-operative or palliative care. In fact, one third of cancer patients undergo reflexology regularly.

Most sessions being conducted by practitioners may last from 30 minutes to an hour. It is also a clothed session so the only thing you have to remove is your shoes and socks. You don’t even have to lie down on a table because some will perform this while you are seated on a chair. At the end of each session, you should feel relaxed. How long it lasts is a good indicator as to how effective it was. If you will be having another session in the future, you should give feedback to the reflexologist so they know what to do the next time you drop by.

Reflexology is another form of massage therapy you can try if you want to relieve tension from the body. If you are interested in trying it, all you have to do is check if there is one within your neighborhood.

Keep dancin’ Larry B